I'm just going to get right to the point and make this blog short! Ladies, if you want your marriage to be THRIEVING, PASSIONATE and ON FIRE then there is one very important lesson to learn. Yes, you already know the answer! We have to give it to our men!!! Christian women especially need to get this! Why do we walk around afraid to talk about sex or think we can't have an exciting sex life because we love Jesus? Hello, that is why we should have it going on because of Jesus!!! God designed SEX for you and your hubby!!! It is a gift and when you give it to him trust me he will do whatever you want!!! ( This last comment about giving it to him because he will do whatever you want is just in fun. Our husbands are not puppets. It is very important to make sure you are not using sex to control and manipulate your man. It is very dangerous and will lead to an unhealthy marriage.)
The other day I had a busy day with the kids. Mark worked all day and when he walked in the door, I could tell what he had on his mind, which is on his mind all the time. I'm sure your husband is the same way. He could be sound asleep and I accidentally touch him and he is wide awake wanting to get his groove on!!! Anyway, I gave him what he needed and he gave me what I needed. He cooked dinner and helped clean up!!!
The bible says, Ask and it will be given, Seek and you shall find, knock and the door will be open. Yes, these are all actions words. He wants us to do something for HIM. The most important is putting God first and seeking him with all our hearts. Plus, He also wants us to ask our husbands what they need, seek him and knock his socks off!!! Husbands, you can apply this to your wife as well. If she is like me, sex is not her first priority. If you ask her what she wants and give it to her, seek her with all your heart ( putting God first), you again will get your socks knocked off!!!!
When you have it going on in your marriage, it's a beautiful witness of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. The Bible also says in Luke 6:38 give and it will be given to you. I love giving and help others but should we not be applying this to our marriage as well! When the foundation is strong in our families it will pour out in the rest of our lives!!!