"Bringing Light To The Matter": SEX, SEX and more SEX!!!!

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

SEX, SEX and more SEX!!!!

I'm just going to get right to the point and make this blog short! Ladies, if you want your marriage to be THRIEVING, PASSIONATE and ON FIRE then there is one very important lesson to learn. Yes, you already know the answer! We have to give it to our men!!! Christian women especially need to get this! Why do we walk around afraid to talk about sex or think we can't have an exciting sex life because we love Jesus? Hello, that is why we should have it going on because of Jesus!!! God designed SEX for you and your hubby!!! It is a gift and when you give it to him trust me he will do whatever you want!!! ( This last comment about giving it to him because he will do whatever you want is just in fun. Our husbands are not puppets. It is very important to make sure you are not using sex to control and manipulate your man. It is very dangerous and will lead to an unhealthy marriage.)

The other day I had a busy day with the kids. Mark worked all day and when he walked in the door, I could tell what he had on his mind, which is on his mind all the time. I'm sure your husband is the same way. He could be sound asleep and I accidentally touch him and he is wide awake wanting to get his groove on!!! Anyway, I gave him what he needed and he gave me what I needed. He cooked dinner and helped clean up!!!

The bible says, Ask and it will be given, Seek and you shall find, knock and the door will be open. Yes, these are all actions words. He wants us to do something for HIM. The most important is putting God first and seeking him with all our hearts. Plus, He also wants us to ask our husbands what they need, seek him and knock his socks off!!! Husbands, you can apply this to your wife as well. If she is like me, sex is not her first priority. If you ask her what she wants and give it to her, seek her with all your heart ( putting God first), you again will get your socks knocked off!!!!

When you have it going on in your marriage, it's a beautiful witness of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. The Bible also says in Luke 6:38 give and it will be given to you. I love giving and help others but should we not be applying this to our marriage as well! When the foundation is strong in our families it will pour out in the rest of our lives!!!

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Megan said...: OK, so after reading your post yesterday, I was thinking man, Chris sure does a lot for me, I mean he just does SO MUCH and never complains, EVER. I was thinking I need to make SEX more of a priority on my part. I am like you Kim, honestly, it's not 1# or #2 for me, but don't get me wrong, I love me some action, and LOVE when Chris initiates, but I think I am going to start making that more of my roll :) I think he was pleasantly surprised last night :) lol. Your post made me think about OVERALL intimacy... I am going to make an overall effort to change that too. I want our kids to see us making out and loving on each other - because I want that for my kids in their relationships, they shouldn't think that is weird :) Thanks for being bold and posting!; January 11, 2013 at 10:54 AM

Why Home Education?

There wasn't just one reason why we decided to home educate our kids. The reasons for each one of our kids were different. I will tell you, as weird as this may sound to some, it was a call on our life. We knew and felt God leading us to do something completely different than the majority of the world and how we were raised. It wasn’t easy at first because of all the negative comments I received from family and friends. Thankfully, I had a few people in my immediate family that were so supportive and the one person besides God and my husband that has helped me is my mom! My dad wasn't on board at first, but now supports Home Education 100%

There is no wrong or right way to home educate. It's really about building a relationship with your children, knowing each one, and what makes their soul come alive! I will be blogging more on Home Education as my focus on this blog will be geared more towards issues mom's face on a daily basis, and my journey and lessons I've learned about Home Education. We love it and have witnessed firsthand the fruit of trusting and listening to God. Home Education does work and truly has been a blessing in our lives!

A little info about my kids!

My oldest daughter, Makenna is going to be 13 years old this September. She has a passion for serving the Lord and does so with her gifts and talents as a gymnast. She also has many other interests like arts and crafts, music, drama and reading. She plays the piano and clarinet as well. Her goal is to make it to the 2016 Olympics in Brazil. She knows with God and hard work all things are possible. She loves hanging out with her family and friends, and enjoys watching sports with her dad! She is very wise for such a young girl! She has a great head on her shoulders and when I think how she is going to be 13 years old and what the world says about teenagers, I have to disagree. I love being around her and couldn't be more proud of her.

My son, Markus, is our second child. He and Makenna both express themselves inwardly. They take everything in and process it before making any decisions, which they get from their dad! Markus has a passion for karate, and his goal is to be a black belt by the time he is 12 years old. I know he is going to do it! He has an incredible memory, and he is really good at math. He enjoys playing chess and beats me all the time! He also enjoys wrestling , sparring and watching sports with his dad. Swimming is another favorite pastime, and this year he will either play trumpet or drums! He hasn't decided yet. He is growing into such a beautiful Godly young man!

My daughter, Marcia, is our third child. She is her mother all the way! Mark calls her KJ! Markus and Makenna are more like their dad in certain areas, while the younger two are more like me. Life without Marcia would be boring. She is not afraid to express herself, and you know exactly how she is feeling or what she is thinking about! Even though she is very bold and has a zest for life, she is more sensitive then all my kids and dealing with her is completely different from everyone else. She loves ballet and we have found a beautiful dance studio that teaches ballet and worship dance. She is learning how to glorify God through the art of dance. She has amazing motor skills, just like her older sister, and can do pretty much anything she puts her mind to, accept it definitely needs to be fun! She will be giving swimming a try this year, and she also plays the recorder. She loves the Lord, and singing and dancing for Him! She really gets a kick out of pointing out when I have disobeyed God! She loves being homeschooled as so do her siblings.

Finally, the fourth is our youngest daughter, Marie. She is still little but has a big personality already! All of our kids have strong personalities! She loves her siblings, swimming and thinking she is older than two years old! She always wants to hang out with them,and when she can't she sure does cry! She is the baby of the family, and the kids treat her like a princess! We are so excited to see what God has in store for her!

I could write on and on about the kids with whom God has blessed us! They are by far not perfect, and parenting is not easy, but they are the love of our lives. We hope they always know we love them, God loves them and HE has big plans for their lives!

About my hubby!

My husband and I have known each other since we were in the 4th grade. We went to school together and played on the same basketball team, with my dad being the coach in elementary school! I fell head over heels for Mark in High School. I remember telling a friend of mine at the end of our senior year that I was going to marry him! As much as I love him, our marriage hasn't always been rosie! We have gone through many fights, disappointments, made many mistakes, and truly had to learn how to love and forgive each other. We are constantly growing closer together, as God has helped heal our relationship and ourselves. We are living proof of God's miracles! He is the most amazing man and father I know. I could write a book just on him! He graduated from Michigan State University with a bachelor’s degree in business. He was a pitcher for MSU, but hurt his arm his junior year. I sure did think he was sexy in that baseball uniform, and I still do! He is in management for a baking company, and just recently became a real estate agent, working for my dad part time.

He loves sports and has brained wash the kids to love MSU too!

"Bringing Light To The Matter"

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

SEX, SEX and more SEX!!!!

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